Looking for something special for your favorite Enneagram Nine? Can’t decide what to pick up for your best friend or family member? You’re in luck! These gift guides are here to help you with your holiday shopping (and don’t forget to pick up a little something for yourself as well).

When I asked on Instagram, Nines were most interested in gifts for that created a cozy, comfortable space, and they would love to have permission to spend a little time and money on themselves. Many Nines shared that they would love time alone at home, an outdoorsy experience, or time with friends, but when it comes down to it, they like to be asked (just be sure to give them time to think about it). When thinking of cozy items to add to this list, I found pajamas and weighted blankets that a Nine might love, and I think these adorable family PJs deserve an honorable mention.

HERE’S THE FULL LIST OF MOST-REQUESTED GIFTS FROM NINES:

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Poetry Book How Far You Have Come: Musings on Beauty and Courage

Masterclass Mixology with Ryan Chetiyawardana and Lynnette Marrero

Gift Ideas above, from left to right:

Notebook, fuzzy slippers, candle
Cozy pajamas, bath bomb, inner peace sticker sheet
Coffee supplies, coffee subscription, parks project beanie
Herb garden grow kit, poetry book, cute pins
Books from an indie book store, money I can spend on myself, MasterClass subscription

Not sure what type you are? Here’s a little more about Nines.

Enneagram Nines are harmonious and agreeable. They are motivated by a need to find internal and external peace. As members of the Gut or Anger triad, they often ignore their own sense of intuition, and they repress their anger for fear of causing conflict. They are natural mediators and peacemakers who make others feel at home, but they fall asleep to their own opinions and desires in an effort to keep the peace.